10 Quirks of Being Japanese + My Brainstorming Process

Hullo, world!

I can’t believe in just two weeks, it’ll be Christmas! (I haven’t even considered Christmas shopping, since I almost never do it.) I’ve been working on and off which has been okay and also finished applying to most of the universities, which is relieving. Now I only need to keep up my 3.8-9 GPA intact. 

All life aside, today I’m finally going to be talking to you about my secret inner self…My experience being Japanese!

Yes, that’s right. So many people have asked me over the course of blogging what’s it like being Japanese and living in Tokyo (where I used to live), so I’m going to reveal things Japanese people are thinking all the time. (JK, it only applies to me, in all honesty!)

So without further ado, let me introduce you to the 10 Quirks of Being Japanese… 

1. I love Japanese (the language)

Well, duhhh, obviously. I think Japanese is officially the politest language on earth (you don’t want me to get started on the levels of formalities) and also the serenest. Speaking Japanese most of my life, I didn’t appreciate it as much when I lived in Japan. But once I moved to Canada, I started to see all the wonderful qualities of Japanese. And now that I think about it, maybe I should do another post on introductory Japanese…

What I think Japanese looks like.

2. I love Japan (and living in Japan)

One of the best things about Japan is…well, Japan.

My favourite city, Shinjuku.

Although politics suck almost everywhere on earth, living in Japan has been (for the most part) a very calm experience. I always joke that the Japanese people are hobbits because of  their lack of awareness for security and their love for food. I mean, you’re taught in kindergarten to report any money you find on the street to the police, be it ¥100 ($1) or ¥1,0000 ($100). I also lived in a very old-school Japanese environment with lots of elderly neighbours, so I think my experience living in Tokyo was different from other people’s experience. I mean, I lived in a park which used to be a military training ground in WWII and an Edo-era garden for one of the samurai under Ieyasu. 

The Showa-feel I grew up in.

3. I only really trust made in Japan

I know, I feel bad saying this, but as kids, my siblings and I would inspect our toys to see which one was made in Japan and which ones weren’t. Even from that age we only really trusted made in Japan and studied our toys made elsewhere with wary eyes. Plus, no one bought grocery that wasn’t Japanese grown. Even though now that made in Japan costs a fortune so I can’t be picky about it, seeing a tag that says MADE IN JAPAN fills me with joy. #sorrynotsorry

4. I’m naturally inclined to become an otaku

Yes, I’m busted. I’m crazy about manga like Hetalia, Tokyo Ghoul, The Promised  Neverland, Bungo Stray Dogs, and more recently Kimetsu no Yaiba (Demon Slayer–which is a terrible translation, since the original means something more like the Demon Destruction Sword…I know, waaay cooler.) 

But what happens is that if you grow up in Japan, you are saturated with manga and  anime everywhere. The highest ranking movie in Japan is anime (No. 1 is Spirited Away, close No. 2  is Demon Slayer Eternity Train). All the cram school brochures are manga. On that point, some instructions are manga. (Okay, that’s stretching it a bit too far, but you get the idea.) 

And almost as much as I love made in Japan, I have pride in the history of manga and anime that I simply can’t stand it when people say anime is not real movie. Like, half the live-action movie in Japan are based off manga. Couple that with the fact I grew up in Osamu Tezuka’s “hometown” where Astro Boy’s theme was the train departure bell, you can’t possibly expect me to become anything other than–well, a natural otaku. 

The iconic scene which made it a box-office hits.

5. I eat Japanese food mostly everyday 

This is not an overstatement since every “western” food we make at our house ends up with a Japanese twist. One example I find hilarious is our Shepherd’s pie. For one thing, half of the meat we replace with tofu bits called okara, which is a left over substance one finds when making tofu. For another, we always use soy sauce as a hidden flavour. Our mac and cheese (or mine, to be exact), includes dashi, lots of veggies, and a hint of bunito. 

To top it off, we make our very own natto–fermented soy beans Kanto-people like us love–and miso. 

Our family dinner look like…

6. My favourite authors include manga artists 

Okay, I feel like I kind of already talked about this in point four, but just to be clear, some manga artists should be considered authors. For example, Osamu Tezuka’s Adolf Ni Tsugu (Message to Adolf) was first published and serialized on Bungeishunjū, a historical and prestigious literature magazine. A manga was serialized on a literature magazine. Guys, just think about this for a moment. And  although Tokyo Ghoul is a bit morbid and somewhat traumatizing (esp. if you’re  younger), the thematic truths and the prose is stunningly beautiful and haunting. It’s not something anyone can write. 

On the side note, I enjoy reading books in Japanese, too, so check out this post if you’re interested in finding out more about Japanese authors I love!

What my favourite Japanese author looks like”

7. Studio Ghibli, Hosoda Mamoru, and Makoto Shinkai are movie creators, not animators

Now I’m definitely being kind of annoying about this point, but bear with me. 🙂 

I know this isn’t the case nowadays and many people respect Japanese anime, but I still occasionally come across people who think anime is for kids. 

Anime is for kids??? *looks at Tokyo Ghoul and the original Nausica manga*

No, my friends, it is not. You might be confusing animated movies with anime, not that I think Dreamworks and Disney aren’t great. (In fact, I love Dreamworks and Pixar!)

But  let’s just agree that some animes, especially ones like Studio Ghibli, are epically and officially movies. 

Just watch one of the Studio Ghibli movies or Your Name, and you will know.

8. Nobunaga Oda is my favourite historical leader

You might not know about him, but please look him up. He’s the famous sengoku daimyō (the sengoku period was from 1467 to 1615) who first unified Japan. He was also a great advocate for Christians, although he wasn’t a Christian himself. His innovative methods and powerful attitude drastically changed Japan’s direction. I always wonder what it would be like if Akechi hadn’t committed treason and Oda hadn’t perished in the Honōji no hen. 

9. I used to loath kanji

Like I hadn’t appreciated the beauty of Japanese until recently, I hadn’t liked the notion of kanji. For those of you who don’t know, Japanese is unique from languages like Korean and Chinese in that we have hiragana, katakana, and kanji. Hiragana and katakana are derived from kanji, but hiragana was born during the Heian period (794 to 1185 AD) amongst the ladies of the court and katakana within the buddhist order during the earlier part of the Heian period. They’re like alphabet  except it’s fifty letters. 

Kanji, on the other hand, is the Japanese version of the Chinese characters, which is the reason I can kind of read and sort of underestand Mandarin. In elementary school, we have to learn 1026 kanji and the various pronunciation we have. 

Yes, this is the reason Japanese kids hate kanji. 

What studying for the Kanji exam looks like

In Chinese characters, I heard there aren’t too many ways to pronounce a certain kanji. But in Japanese, we have both the Chinese pronunciation (on-yomi) and the Japanese pronunciation (kun-yomi). And depending on the kanji applied to it, the way you say a word changes completely…

You can either think it fascinating or excruciating. 

10. Cuteness heals me

And lastly, cuteness heals me. I think this is something that comes from growing up in Japan. You’re automatically surrounded by cute things, whether you’re a salary man or a joshi-kousei (high schooler). And at the end of the day, nothing can give you greater joy than the sumikko gurashi notebook and gudedama stuffy…

Wow, that was long. Maybe you should grab a cup of tea before I jump into the next section?

My Brainstorming Process:

I just started another WIP! It’s top secret, so I won’t tell you much else than the fact it  happens in Japan featuring Tokyo and a pandemic. 


This is my brief intro to my brainstorming process.

A: Find two exciting ideas

Like Stephen King once said, a great story is a combination of two exciting ideas. For example, I love Pride and Prejudice and Zombies because it combines two exciting ideas–Pride and Prejudice and, well, Zombies. It’s unheard of and utterly scandalous and oddly perfect. 

I usually try to find two exciting ideas (one might be a dream) and build off from there. 

What I wish brainstorming looked like.

B: Write down the basic premise 

This is where I write a rudimentary note about what the story looks like, which can be a sentence or a few paragraphs. It often includes rough character sketches and worldviews of the story. Plus, a conflict of some sort. 

C: Create a Pinterest Board 

I always create a Pinterest Board for any story I write, and this is where I start the visualising my story. I find I can create more when I find  pictures to go with my story, so I’ll set a timer to capture exactly what my story feels like. 

D: Expand

And this is the place I keep building on. I might go back and re-define my premise, or review the ideas and the feel I have for my story. I might create a character playlist, which Brooke writes about in this post. I create as many aspects of this story I need to start writing. Depending on whether I plan or pants or plants, I also write a rough outline at this point. 

Me Brainstorming in a week.

And that’s what my brainstorming process looks like!

This  ended up being kind of long, with me ranting about being Japanese and my Brainstorming process, but thanks for reading!

What  did you think? Are you multi-racial? Do you have any quirks being a certain nationality? What does your brainstorming process look like? Let me know in the comments below; I’d love to chat with you!

13 thoughts on “10 Quirks of Being Japanese + My Brainstorming Process

  1. This was such an interesting post! I know a tiny bit about Japan/Japanese because I’ve done Karate-Do for six years, and our sensei very much brings Japanese culture into our classroom, and I loved learning more in this post! (Especially about what being Japanese is like).

    Japanese is a lovely language! I would love to visit Japan one day…add that to my *long* list of places I would like to go someday.

    I love the way your family adds a Japanese twist to all your food! Amazing.

    Studio Ghibli is definitely a movie creator! I have enjoyed the Studio Ghibli movies I’ve watched, although Howl’s Moving Castle is NOTHING LIKE THE BOOK and it did rub me the wrong way a bit. 🙂

    Oh my word, you have to learn 1026 kanji?! That’s a TON! I would not do well with that, I don’t think. 🙂

    So fun to hear more about your brainstorming process, too! It’s very unlike mine. 🙂

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    • I do karate, too!!!!
      How long have you been doing it? What style is yours? Mine is kyokushin, so some people get scared, but I’m completely harmless. 😂

      And yes, visit Japan! (Not that I’m biased, but O think it should be on the top of your list…)

      I still have to learn a few thousand more to get Kanji test level 2 which would mean I know all the kanji an “average” high school~ college student learns. Still some ways to go!


      • Oh, nice! I don’t think I’ve ever heard of kyokushin, I shall have to look it up. I do Shudokan, which is technically an Okinawan style, but our sensei spent several years in Japan, and so a lot of Japanese culture makes it into our…Okinawan karate. 😂 I just got my black belt a couple of months ago.

        Our sensei also takes people on trips to Japan, so maybe someday after COVID!

        Oh man! This is kind of blowing my mind, the amount of things you have to memorize! Good luck. 🙂

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  2. FABULOUS POST. I LOVE Japan (though I’ve only been there once) and I really, really want to learn Japanese someday. Japanese culture is fascinating (honestly any culture is)! I agree about the prejudices against anime/manga too; even though I’m not Japanese, it should be more appreciated in other countries! Also, that language is pretty darn impressive–do you write stories in Japanese too?

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    • Yay, another Japanophilia! (I know, it’s an actual word that exists, I just looked it up.)
      I actually couldn’t write in English when I was in elementary, so I have a pile of stories in Japanese that are just horrifying. I sometimes go back and read just to make sure it’s still as appalling.

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  3. I’ve always loved Japanese culture and anime! ❤ Castle in the Sky, Ponyo and The Secret World of Arrietty are the only ones I've seen from Studio Ghibli and I've seen a handful of others from other Japanese studios, but I'm working on watching more. 🙂 I'm also trying to learn the Japanese language. Another reason I love Japan is because it brought me Kingdom Hearts, my all time favourite game franchise. 😉

    I loved learning about your brainstorming process! ^_^ It's always fascinating learning how other authors come up with their ideas. 🙂

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    • YAY, another Japanophilia!
      Studio Ghibli marathons are legit things 🙂
      I don’t do games so I haven’t played Kingdom Hearts but I’ve heard of it!

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    • AAHHH, yes!!! I am also obsessed with The Promised Neverland…I’m watching season 2, which diverges from the manga but I love them both! I love drawing as well 🙂

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